So you want to see a Dominatrix?

Most nights (when I'm not elbow deep in a boi) I'll sit in bed with a cup of peppermint tea and lurk the internet. I've found many many many red flags in the kinky corners of the internet including; untrained, unprofessional dominatrices, clients getting scammed out of money and dommes getting scammed out of time. Here are a few tips to ensure the smooth running of that your first encounter with the Goddess of your dreams:

  • Do your damn research! Google her, look for a website, pictures, reviews and social media accounts or other workers that the Mistress may know. If she doesn't have any references - are you really going to trust her with your safety? (This said, many dommes don't have websites but they do at least have a reputation and friends!)
  • Is the price too good to be true? Then it is. You get what you pay for has never been more accurate. If you're tight on money, book a shorter session with a good Domme - This will be much more rewarding and memorable than a two hour session for $200. (or donate a testicle)
  • Initiate contact her through her website. This is an important one. I've had one boy scammed out of FOUR THOUSAND DOLLARS by someone using my content on collarspace. To ensure that you're not being scammed and you're actually talking with the cool sexy woman, use her site or her establishments site to contact her! 
  • Be specific, get to the point or FUCK OFF. The brutal truth. Tell us what you're looking for, 3 potential dates and ask how you can pay your deposit if Mistress requires them. If you need to speak excessively about your fantasy, offer to pay a consult fee. 

I'm sure I'll think of more pointers... stay tuned. 

Mistress Ophelia Fatale xxx