This blog post is to clarify many misconceptions that boys have when contacting me, so not to waste your time and mine. 

  1. When making an enquiry, you will address me as Mistress Ophelia, any "hun", "babe", "darlin'" messages will be ignored. Even if you are not a full blown submissive, I require these manners from you.
  2. On my home page, I disclaim that I do not provide sexual services. This includes any kind of relief or orgasm, whether it be by hand, mouth, sex or "orgasm milking" - I will not make you cum, I am not an escort and I will NEVER have sex with a client of mine
  3. I will never be naked during a session, all of my sessions are clothed female nude male. I will be wearing lingerie, fetish wear or clothing depending on the session type. Do not ask me to be naked.
  4. I do not provide face sitting unclothed or any sexual activity on my part including rimming and oral servitude.
  5. My services are suitable for beginners and the more experienced kinkster, meaning that I can go lightly or hard on you depending on your experience.
  6. I do not do outcalls, if you cannot afford my dungeon - do not contact me. No I will not stay in your hotel suite if your session does not require a dungeon.
  7. A deposit is required for all sessions especially from new clients, deposit can be paid via paypal, bank deposit or a gift card to a store of my choice.
  8. Please use basic grammar when contacting me, u, youse and use are not words and will not be responded to with my words.
  9. I will not answer any phone calls, especially from blocked numbers. I expect a text message and description of yourself upon contacting me.
  10. Once your session is booked and dungeon deposit is paid, I cannot move this around. If you wish to cancel or change your appointment your deposit will not be refunded as I book and pay for the dungeon upon deposit.

That's all for now but expect more updates, if you do not comply with these rules I will not have any interest in catering to your needs.

Mistress Ophelia Fatale xxxx